“SHE THINKS SHE’S SOOOOOOO GOOD”
How dare she.
How dare she believe that she is amazing, and talented, and that she can do, be & have everything she wants.
How dare she show up in the world with confidence.
How dare she speak her mind.
How dare she look that good.
How dare she decide that she wants to be incredibly successful and desire to make millions of dollars.
How dare she spend her money on expensive things, doesn’t she know that money doesn’t buy happiness?
How dare she work so much on her business while she has young children… she’ll never get that time back, she should be enjoying it.
FUCK. THIS. SHIT.
Have you ever heard anyone ever say anything like this about another woman?
Have you ever had anyone else say anything like this to YOU?
Ohhh. it makes me cranky.
And, up until this point. I have said nothing.
Defaulted into the good girl.
The nice girl.
The girl who doesn’t wan’t to cause a scene so she refrains from saying what she really believes because she fears that someone else won’t agree with it and she is afraid of confrontation.
HOW DARE SHE NOT BELIEVE IN HERSELF?!
HOW DARE SHE NOT KNOW SHE IS AMAZING, AND KNOW THAT SHE CAN HAVE EVERYTHING WITHOUT SACRIFICING ANYTHING?!
WHY IS IT THAT SHE IS EXPECTED TO LOVE HERSELF YET NOT LET ANYONE ELSE KNOW THAT SHE DOES?
Why is it that when she has dreams and goals that are bigger than most, she talks herself OUT of them with thoughts like “oh, but I don’t need that” or “I have enough” or “I should be happy with what I have”
Let me tell you what, princess…
If everyone was always just happy with what they had…
THE WORLD WOULD NEVER FUCKING CHANGE!!
In order for Evolution to even be a thing… the world needs inventors, creators, teachers, artists, researchers, and people who genuinely believe THEY CAN DO THE THINGS THEY WANT TO DO – and that they deserve to.
The people that tell you that you don’t “need” that, or that you need to “stop working so hard” or that you should be “humble” or “lady-like” – LET THEM BE THAT WAY.
They are not like you.
You know they are not like you.
SO WHY ARE YOU ALLOWING THEM TO HOLD YOU BACK WHEN YOU KNOW DEEP IN YOUR BONES YOU ARE AMAZING AND YOU NEED TO UNLEASH YOUR AMAZINGNESS WITH THE WORLD?!
I dare you.
I DARE YOU.
To believe you are amazing, talented, and that you can be, do and have everything that you want.
I dare you to show up in the world with confidence.
I dare you to speak your mind.
I dare you to look your best.
I dare you to decide that you are going to be incredibly successful and to decide that you are going to make millions of dollars.
I dare you to spend your money on expensive things, if you want them, and if they make you feel good.
I dare you to work as much as you want on your business while you have young children.
I don’t doubt that that has ANY impact on how you feel about them or how they feel about you, what-so-ever.
I DARE YOU TO STOP HIDING & STEP OUT OF THE SHADOWS.
I DARE YOU TO STOP PRETENDING THAT YOU ARE NOT INCREDIBLE.
I DARE YOU TO STOP GIVING A FLYING FUCKITY FUCK WHAT OTHER PEOPLE MIGHT THINK.
I DARE YOU TO BE “ALL THAT AND THEN SOME” FROM THIS POINT FORWARD.
I DARE YOU TO USE SHOUTY CAPITALS AND NOT BE AFRAID THAT SOMEONE MIGHT THINK YOU ARE BEING TOO SHOUTY (yes, real past fear of mine from personal experience)…
So, will you take the dare?
Reply and let me know!
Love, Carissa xo