It is SO important to do things that make YOU feel good about yourself & confident in yourself… not what other people want or think you should do, or what you think you should do.
For example, your clothing style…
Just because someone else (maybe someone you admire or someone else in your industry) dresses or wears their hair a certain way…
Doesn’t mean you need to dress or style yourself the same way in order to be successful.
Changing yourself in any way to try and influence the way people see you or think about you will always end up with you feeling inauthentic and unfulfilled.
I’ve never really been a very ‘girly girl’ (except for liking the colour pink)!
I really don’t care that much about makeup, hairstyles, fashion, shoes or jewellery.
I don’t even know how I ended up in the beauty industry sometimes 🤣
But – for a while I thought I had to wear a lot of makeup, and wear high heels, and curl my hair etc in order to “fit in”
It always made me feel slightly uncomfortable though!!
When I realised that I liked myself a whole lot better when I wore minimal makeup, straight hair, and clothes like printed tshirts, gym wear or maxi dresses (and flat shoes)…
I felt more confident and all round happy, and started to become far more successful in all areas of my life.
The reason I’m sharing this with you is because if at any time you’re comparing yourself to anyone, or thinking you need to look, act or do anything a certain way in order to be happy & successful…
All you ever need to be is yourself.
(Sometimes in order to find what you do like though, you need to try things that you don’t).