A client told me recently I had turned into a bitch…
But, a good bitch.
And at first I was a bit upset “I don’t want to be a bitch!” ☹️
But as she went on to explain how because of my attitude shift lately inside my courses during live trainings & coaching calls…
She had massively been inspired and pulled her own finger out and taken on some of my fierce energy and started smashing many of her goals and standing up for herself more!
So, because of that, I totally don’t mind being a “good bitch” lol
Why the shift in my energy lately?!
#1 pregnancy hormones.
#2 I got tired of people and clients not taking responsibility for their results and decided to stop tolerating excuses and complaining and victim mode and am just telling people how it is and what I know and what I’ve seen over my 5 years teaching business and marketing so far and what I’ve been through & experienced myself over my 14yrs in business.
And the main things I’ve been saying are things like this:
YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR RESULTS IN ALL AREAS OF YOUR LIFE AND BUSINESS.
IF YOU EXPECT IMMEDIATE RESULTS FOR LITTLE TO NO EFFORT OR GIVE UP OR QUIT ANYTHING TOO SOON YOU WILL NOT WIN.
IF YOU DON’T MAKE THE TIME TO DO THE WORK OF COURSE YOU WONT GET ANY FUCKING RESULTS.
IF YOU SULK OR COMPLAIN WHEN THINGS DON’T WORK, YOU’RE WASTING YOUR LIFE, JUST TRY AGAIN.
IF YOU DON’T EVEN KNOW YOUR OWN CLIENTS AND ARENT PREPARED TO LEARN OR CARE ABOUT THEM, YOU’LL KEEP STRUGGLING UNTIL YOU DO.
IF YOU BELIEVE THAT YOU SUCK AT ANYTHING THEN YOU WILL UNTIL YOU START TO TELL YOURSELF DIFFERENTLY.
PEOPLE ARENT BUYING WHAT YOURE SELLING BECAUSE THEY DONT WANT WHAT YOURE OFFERING THEM AND YOU ARE BEING TOO STUBBORN TO ACTUALLY TRY ANYTHING DIFFERENT OR SEE THINGS FROM THEIR POINT OF VIEW.
IF YOU’RE NOT MAKING THE TIME FOR IT ITS OBVIOUSLY NOT THAT IMPORTANT TO YOU.
THE PEOPLE WHO WIN ARE THE PEOPLE WHO KEEP GOING UNTIL THEY WIN, PERIOD.
YOU WILL HAVE MORE BIG WINS IF YOU CELEBRATE ALL THE LITTLE ONES TOO.
IF YOU’RE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR WHAT’S WRONG WITH THINGS THEN YOURE GOING TO LIVE A PRETTY MISERABLE LIFE, AND I DON’T WANT MISERABLE NEGATIVE PEOPLE IN MY LIFE SO MAYBE YOU SHOULD GO AWAY.
I think that’s enough for now but I’ll yell some more later when I think of more things to yell about…
Is it kind of like the good witch??? 🧙♀️
Edit: I’ve had a few pm’s from this post asking about coaching, if you’re interested in having me whoop your ass in 2019 please pm and tell me about what you want to achieve next year I’ll let you know what I suggest.